Sunday, May 08, 2005 
  
  
   
    
 hmmm.. been thinking quite alot lately about life. i know it seems abit stupid bombarding my brain about such things.. but well.. wouldn't it be pathetic if after sixteen years of living life and you dun actually loved or enjoyed it? maybe its about time to reflect, about life, or rather the aspects of life.. 
   
1) studies
2) family
3) friends
4) happiness
studies : basically, this is what we are supposed to be doing for about fifteen years of our life.. usually the most hatable part.. but we have no choice but to accomodate.. =) to me, studying is jux a process, which each and everyone of us has to go through.. yep.. sadly, without any shortcuts available.. :) well, to survived and to stand firm in a flourishing society like singapore, one has to be at least a degree holder.. i'm sure many will agree with me.. especially in a society thats so competitive..=)
family : our families will be where we get our greatest moral support.. thought they're not always approving on the front, you know that secretly they wished you well.. and thats heart-warming enough.. they are like stars, though you dun always see them, but you know they'll always be there for you.. and yet, they are often the people whom we cherished least! we often took them for granted.. they dun owe us anything for goodness sake! well, but sorry isn't too late, nothing can be unforgivable to your family! hereby i would like to say sorry mum! forgive me for my wilfulness!! =)
friends : friends are people whom you can rely on.. people whom you place your trust.. people whom you'd like to share your happiness with.. to me.. friends are essential in life! friends are just like oxygen, which no one can do without.. cherish your friends, dun ever take them for granted! show that little appreciation to them.. it could be something small, but it sure touched the other party greatly.. =D btw.. congrats weiwei, for having done well.. happy for ya!*winks* => we'll be coming to join ya at sp soon.. cheers!! =)  
happiness : how do i define happiness? simple.
- having family that loves!
- having friends that cares!
- having money to spend! (lol! jkjk)
- having laughters in life!
- feeling surrounded by caring friends!
- feeling wanted!
- feeling appreciated!
- feeling hopes!
NOTE : A little care and concern goes a long way for a lonely and lost soul!! 
  ..xin fu cong lai dou bu xu yuan wo` ;